okay theres this girl i really like and i want her to like me, but i can't seem to do anything right around her. i always seem to mess up and its getting me stressed. anyone know ways to get the girl to like me?
Talk to her... Grand gestures usually freak girls out... Especially at (I'm guessing) your young age.
Show confidence and try not to look too bad. Anyways, talk to her. If she likes you or is even the slightest interested in you she'll be nice and show that she likes to speak with you (unless she's shy). Ask her out somewhere aswell.
Be yourself. If she isn't into you like that then any relationship you create won't work. You got this, we believe in you.
Like others are saying be yourself, just try to talk to her, see what she's interested in and try to find to find out what you have in common and talk about that. See how it goes when you talk to her. Be nice to her, compliment her if you see the chance. If things go well as far as talking to her several times then just mention that you like her. If she just isn't into you it's not the end of the world, you will find someone else that you like.
ok, do NOT do what I did. I liked this girl last year in my last year of high school. I tried to talk to her a lot but ended up making myself look creepy. I heared she did not go to a trip to a cottage a friend of mine rented for our grad trip because I was going. I still kinda feal like shit for potentially making her feal insecure. But realy, just be casual and dont force anything. If she is interested in the stuff you like, then talk about that stuff and dont make shit up. Also, on a side note, I did try 2.5 times in high school to get girls I likes, One at the begining, one at the middle of the year, and the one I mentioned was the end of the year. The first time we were friends for a while, we talked daily and I asked her out (quite nerviousley). She politely rejected me, but we remained friends. It was not that bad. The seccond time (the 0.5) I was determined to ask this other girl out who I have beem talking to for a few months, but I totally got PWND and she told me, right before I was going to pop the question, that she liked my best friend...who she met about a month before...that hurt, and they are now dating because of my effort (yeah, I helped them get togeter despite my fealings towards her at the time) but the three of us are friends to this day and they are still going out. I got over her and moved on long ago though. The third one however, I barely talked to before I got a crush on her and royaly fucked up. I only realized what I was doing a month after school ended and I prety much knew I was never going to see her again and moved on before I got the news...and i also found out she goes to my university so I turn a corner on the odd occasion that I spot her. But, I think I will move on, and I will find an other girl. I mean, people tell me I do have the looks, this comming from the bigger man-slut I have ever known...its his quest to turn me into a slut.
be more assertive... For all you know girl #2 would have said yes if you hadn't have given her the chance to develop a thing for your friend. Especially as ya'll get older. Don't be afraid to talk to women and ask them out / make the move / whatever. Don't be a d*** about it, but girls respect and are attracted to confidence, and you show them that and they will respond....
Seriously someone should ban this troll, all he does is post inflammatory stuff on here and is just a waste of space on this forum.
Relax is the key. Take litle alcohol, just litle to relax you do NOT want to be drunk. Talk to her, make her laugh, spend time together then go for a hit. Fairly simple. If it doesnt get you anywhere, well shit happens. Thats part of life and will perpare you for the next time.
Yes, yes, yes. And we are talking about like a mug of 5% It wont show a single thing on you. I mean you wont be as nearvous as you probably would be.
